Executive Healing for Pioneers & High Performers
Cutting-edge personal growth for those ahead of the pack
You mastered how to perform and achieve. The next stretch of your growth lies in your subconscious.
It's time to step into the exciting life, fulfilling relationships, and badass career you spent your whole life preparing for.
I work with:
- Pioneers, overachievers, curious souls;
- Top consultants, high-performing executives;
- Prospective and current MBAs;
- Those who want to become conscious parents, leaders, politicians, partners;
- First and second generations out of low-income or poverty (congrats!)
My specialties:
- Far from your tribe: Making a new home for yourself is challenging. Get your needs met and build a fulfilling life as an uprooted, global citizen. Strengthen your personal power and achieve balance in your relationships. You might have left home without giving it a second thought, but your choice carried risk and had a purpose—let's make sure you're in the best shape to live up to it.
- Beyond validation: Do you find it hard to define your needs, goals, or aspirations without looking to others? Do feedback and compliments have the power to make or break you? Cement your self-worth to grow past comparisons, immature competition, and caring about what others think. You are a pioneer; act like one. Become effortlessly confident, innately attractive, and courageously intimate regardless of gender, seniority, or your relative income.
- From excitement to passion: Move beyond the series of fleeting intellectual excitements ("AI is the next big thing so that's what I do now") that got you here. You won't find fulfilment chasing others' interests. Make the most of your life by finding and pursuing your unique North Star. Enjoy every step of the way. Figure out what matters most to you and why, or if you already have, let's turn theory into practice.
- Goodbye consulting, welcome real life: You've built the resources—now it's time that you benefit from them. Say NO to cultish fearmongering (such as "your career will stagnate" or "people outside of consulting are incapable") designed to keep you on the partner track. Jump ahead in your career, build structure for yourself, defeat procrastination, and deal with any unfinished business or lingering insecurities holding you back from a life full of ease, joy, & real purpose.
- Can't be tamed, can't be bribed, can't be controlled: Overcome the hidden baggage—shame, guilt, insecurities—that makes you vulnerable to being controlled. Process your fears & regrets before taking on more power as a parent, business leader, or politician. Stop passing on your dreams and insecurities to others, and stop others from projecting theirs onto you.
- Secure attachment for those who grew up too fast: You had to rely on yourself, but now that stage is over. It's time to address the curse of your gift. Reparent yourself to earn secure attachment, overcome chronic loneliness and distrust, and recover the parts of you that you lost by growing up too fast. It's time to experience all those things you thought you never would.
Working with me
Almost all my clients "maxed out" in talk therapy.
They either reached a plateau, or simply wanted to add a modality that will allow them to turn the insights they gathered into lasting, permanent change.
We work on the level of your subconscious.
We work on the level underneath your decisions.
We don't work on the level where you know that going to the gym would be good for you, so you push through. That's the level of discipline, which is a costly, finite resource.
We work on the level where your body would rather spend another hour at work to finish that important deck, or engage with your favorite addiction of choice. Our aim is to get to a place where you can trust that your body wants things that are aligned with your values and best interests.
Your subconscious defines what feels right to you: your fears, cravings, attachments, judgments, tendencies, protective mechanisms. We make shifts here, so you won't have to invest discipline—a costly resource—to go against your body all the time.
Healing has an objective. Why not optimize its ROI?
The shifts on this level are immediate and extremely noticable: they make life easier, happier, and your goals become much more easily achievable.
For example, before my healing journey, I would have never been able to start this business.
Understanding the rules of the subconscious has been the main research focus of trauma therapy for 40+ years.
Given that we finally have an objective function, why wouldn't we optimize our approach to healing like we do with any business problem?
Everything I do in my practice, from the techniques in my toolkit to the financial terms we use, maximizes the return my clients get on their emotional & financial resources invested.
Somatic Internal Family Systems as an operating system
I believe that the modern healer needs an operating system. This OS is a system that describes what's possible with the subconscious.
My operating system is Internal Family Systems, an exponentially growing, evidence-based system also used by psychotherapists.
In addition to the operating system, I believe that we should offer synergistic techniques. If someone only uses a single modality, the chances that they can offer the highest ROI tool for any given client situation is low.
This is why I constantly seek and learn tools from numerous methodologies and conduct my own research to understand their synergies.
Heal the healer first
I believe that doing the work is the most important factor for the efficacy and trustworthiness of any healing professional.
In addition to my successful business career, I participated in the following forms of psychotherapy during my recovery from CPTSD:
5 years of psychodynamic talk therapy - Hungary,
2 years of intensive trauma therapy (IFS, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Attachment-focused) - California, US,
1.5 years of intensive EMDR therapy - United Kingdom,
3 months of financial IFS therapy - South Dakota, United States,
3 months of therapeutic ketamine therapy - California, US.
I also experienced the following modalities with various healing practitioners: Systemic Constellations, Reichian & Löwenian Bioenergetics, Yin yoga, Breathwork, Reiki, Somatic Experiencing, Psychodrama, Bodywork.
I initially developed Parts Journaling, a method I teach to my clients, for my own benefit. Parts Journaling is an extremely efficient form of Solo IFS. I've practiced Solo IFS for 1,000+ hours. This allowed me to transition out of intensive forms of trauma therapy into being my own lead healer, involving some amazing (and very expensive) professionals at the most opportune points in my journey. I advocate this self-support model to all my clients.
I use everything that I learned at:
My clients don't have to explain what it means to:
Understand any topic in a matter of hours,
Be told you "think too much" when you go to therapy,
Fly to a different continent every other Monday in your first job out of college,
Get rejected from your dream MBA, then get in the next year,
Invest the severance from a $300K+ job in your sabbathical & career change,
Learn how to heal CPTSD and attachment wounding because you trust yourself the most,
Pull yourself out of financial, intellectual, spiritual poverty.
Work with me
The first step for new private clients is coming for a free, 30-minute consult, where we can see if we're a good fit for working together.
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